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well, I'll talk about relationship in this post today....

okok, most of you might find it funny in disbelief that I actually am writing about relationships...

 

let's talk about 2 individuals (boy and girl)

 

girls, (since I am a boy, so I shall write this from a guy's point of view)

I am sure most of you all want to know what a guy wants from a relationship right?

well, to be honest...

I can't give a precise answer to you all as well,

since all guys have different point of view of what is a relationship...

it's hard to tell...

 

is it affection? attention? time? understanding? accompaniment? money? sex?

 

to me, understanding is most important,

once you understand each other, you will somehow know what your partner is thinking, thus, the answer to the above question will be easily answered..

 

to be honest, what a boy want will be to have an understanding girlfriend

a girl who understands him,

know what he want's and what he needs...

 

and most of the time, a guy wants to be able to be there for his girl, to be able to protect her...

to be able to make her smile, seeing his girl smile means more than the world...

and most of all, to be able to share his ups and downs with her

(for me, I think long time before I can experience these feelings since I still wanna travel across the 5 continents and the 7 seas)

 

 

well, I was once naive and once thought that sex has nothing to do with love, but I was wrong perhaps?

not that it's an important part, but sex plays a petite role, but may also be a crucial role in a relationship...

many may disagree, but it's true...

 

 

and in pattorlogy, the keywords would be trust, honesty, and to give and take

you must be able to trust each other, and in order to do so, you all must be honest at the first place...

and, bare in mind that no one in this world is perfect, it's hard enough to find a person who you love and whom love you back. Give and take, forgive your partner's mistakes and accept him or her for who he or she is...

 

 

 

By: The Love Guru gregorule (pun intended)

 

this is just a short post of my thought, any agreements or apposing ideas? kindly comment...