destiny?

some people said that events in our life is writen...
planned before hand,
what happened to us,
what will we be,
or even when will we die?
it is planned...

i beg to differ...

i have long lost this belief...

i only trust that what happened,
and what is going to happen,
to us,
and to the people around us,
is planned by we ourselves...

we are the only one's who are powerful to make what we want ours...
only we can control our destiny,
and only we, can hold on to what we want...

while those who have more power,
are those who are able to influence others around them,
thus making thy, the writer of poeple's destiny...

as long as we are still sane,
as long as we can still think,
rasionalize, manipulate,
we still can change whatever destiny has writen for us...
we still can choose....

why poeple suiside?
be cause they choose to...

why are there homicide?
becasue they choose to kill...

i believe we,
untill today,
no, as long as we are alive,
we are still able to choose...

we can choose not to kill,
not to suicied,
not to harm people,
we can choose to help people,
to turn into a new leaf,
to continue living!

we all have ways to survive in this environment,
it depends on how we choose to live it...

i believe that the only thing we can't change;
the only destiny is:
our family....

we can choose what we want to do in our life,
but we cannot choose who brought us into this world...
family s the only thing we cannot change...

besids that,
nothing is writen...

the book,
is nothing but empty pages,
it however,
is waiting for us to fill it up.
and whatever we do,
is recorded in it.

religion,
is a guide...
i believe every religion is to point us to the right way (except for those mojo religion)
i am not siding any religion,
but i just wanna point out that,
whatever we do,
we must be able to evaluate it ourselves...

and maybe, that is why till today,
i choose not to have a religion...
because, i believe in my judgement,
and most important, i know what is right and wrong...
i believe in myself...



P.S. if i cause any misunderstand, i beg for your forgiveness. religion is a sensitive issue, and i am just sounding my thought.