yesterday, today, and tomorrow...

also known as past, present, and future...

we all go through the same thing everyday, waking up today, leaving yesterday, and looking forward for tomorrow...

it's the circle of life...

 

 

yesterday,

I was a kid who know nothing...

naive enough to think that everything can turn out the way I wanted it to be...

to believe that everyone tells the truth...

and having faith on something and wish that miracles can happen...

 

 

but today,

I am a degree student, learning more than I can...

and faced some truth of life, (brain too contaminated with the society)

learning how to handle turbulent situations... (I a kinda like handling sticky situations)

and believe that there are no such thing as miracle if you don't add in some hard work...

 

 

and tomorrow,

I never know what will happen...

I can only dream of it...

knowing that I may be able to prepare for what's coming...

and tomorrow, gives me the strength to strive for what I plan to achieve...

 

 

 

the people we are now, are not who we were like yesterday....

and we will never know what kind of people we will be tomorrow...

 

should we say the environment change us?

or is it us who altered the surroundings?

 

 

here are some questions I have asked myself and I would like you all to ponder on...

 

good and bad

humans define good and bad (for minute cases, murder and killing exempted)

we usually say if a person is doing a good or bad thing, but most important of all, I think we all do thing for a reason we believe in to be able to achieve the outcome we desire.

so, one may think that a person is doing the right thing while the other might think the other way.

 

truth and lie

no one likes to be lied to, do you?

truth and lie can sometimes mislead us to a lost path, directing us away from what we are really searching. Sometimes, we are so busy looking to the lie, that we forgot to see the truth which is just under our nose.

so, do we go detect those lies and lose the truth, or do we just accept what people tell us?

 

be glad of what we have or go for more?

just like the question "do you see your glass half empty or half full?"

if we see it as half full, will we be motivated to strive harder to get more?

if we see it as half empty, will we ever be satisfied with what we have?

 

 

and thus, after all those questions, I can conclude that

everything is decided by ourselves, the decisions we made, the path we took, everything we did leads us to where we are now.

our future are not write in stone as we are the once deciding the outcome of tomorrow. the past makes us who we are in some ways, but we are not our past.

I'd rather people say that the cannot tell me something rather than lie to me.

and screw the half glass of water, try your best and no matter what is the outcome, you'll be glad with it, knowing that you have already did your best

 

 

well, that's just my point of view...

BUT I really really like to know what people think about out there...

drop me a comment and tell me what you think will you?

thanks in advance~

 

 

 

grego out!~

FEAR

what is fear?

what do we really fear inside us?

is it the gruesome masks, plastic spiders, or even life size monsters?

no, what we really fear off is the thought that is inside us...

maybe inside me...

the fear that am I really happy?

the fear that makes me wonder is I have made the right decision?

perhaps that the fear that love is lost forever?

but, what if...

we do not die from our fear, which turns out to make us stronger?

MOOD

people say that your feeling is larger than the sky...

and that, to me, is your mood...

let's see...

 

today,

I have no mood to study...

so, I don't study today...

 

today,

I have got the mood to sleep...

so, I slept the whole day...

 

then,

I have to mood to blog...

so, I've blogged...

 

now,

I don't have the mood to shit...

but it's already code red...

no matter how no mood I am in to shitting...

I still have to shit...

>.<

 

so, sometimes, there are things that we don't like to do...

but still we have to do it due to some certain reasons...

 

 

 

know that I'll still come out from the toilet feeling much relieved...

;p

Making a wish

make a wish, and place it in your heart...

anything you wan, everything you want...

and now, believe that it will come true...

we'll never know what kind of miracle is going to come from the next smile...

the next wish come through...

but if you believe that it is right around the corner, and open you heart and mind to the possibility of it, and to the certainty of it...

you might just get the thing you are wishing for...

the world is full of magic, you'll just have to believe in it...

so, make a wish...

and believe in it, with all your heart...

giving is loving?

sometimes, I let things be,

because it's not in my control.

sometimes, I let things be,

because I want it that way.

sometimes, I let things be,

because I don't want to get into an argument.

but most of the times, I let things be,

because I want people who is around me to live happily...

 

somehow, people thinks that giving is happy,

but sometimes, there are things that you cannot really afford to give it to another person...

imagine if someone come knocking on your door and ask if "hey, you have a very good friend over there... can you give him to me?"

or "hey I like your girlfriend, can you give her to me?"

I don't really find that really happy giving it away...

and sad to say, the object somehow went and give away itself...

 

is it stupid to give away things that you treasure most, just to satisfy others around you? but be in grieving sorrow yourself?

or should you fight for what you treasured and make people around you sad?

then, is giving a kind of love?

roles we play

we all are assigned a role to play in this grate life of ours...
as friend, family, enimies, or just a simple stranger...
but the part we play sometimes require us to make decisions...
decisions that may affect others around us...
and those decisions somehow have to be put into actions...
that somehow have to be done...

but the important part is,
how do we come out with the decision...

a mystical bond

much as some of us fighted,

our parents have a mystical hold over us...

the power to affect our thoughts, our emotions...

the way only they can...

it's a bond that changes over time, but doesn't diminish...

even if they are half the world away...

or in another world entirely...

it is a power we will never fully understand...

but only left for us to wonder, 

that when our time comes,

what kind of hold will we have on our children...

molding our future...

the rest of our life is being shaped right now...

it is all up to you to take your chances and do what ever you wan to...

or we can sit down and listen from somebody who has been through it all...

the choice is ours...

 

the rest of our life is a long time from now...

and all that we know, it is being shaped right now...

we can choose to blame our circumstances on fate, luck, or bad choices...

or we can fight back!

 

things are not going to be fair in the real world...

that's just the way it is...

but for the most part, you get what you give...

 

so, what's worse?

not getting what you wish for?

or getting it but finding that it is not enough...

 

and so...

the rest of our life is being shaped right now...

along with the dreams we chase...

the choices we make...

and the person we decide to be...

 

the rest of our life is a long time...

and it is being shaped right now...

our heart

someone came by and asked me,

"where is your heart?"

 

i paused and think for a moment,

thinking weather was it a joke,

or is it a serious question...

so, i pointed at my left chest and said...

"i think it's somewhere here..."

 

"to me, it somewhere here..."

he gripped his hand somewhere between us...

i wondered at him for sometime, and finally asked "why"

 

and so i found out that,

a heart is born for the first time when we get to know each other,

the heart is not inside the body.

when you think of something or think of someone, a heart is born there.

if you were alone in this world, there wouldn't be a heart anywhere, he reckons.

so if you wish for your heart to be here,

here it will be...

and if your heart is here, there is also a reason for you to be here too...

 

yes, he said it, and i somehow find it true, amazingly true.

again i asked "where will our hearts go when we die?"

 

when you die, you leave your hearts with your loved once, family and friends...

when you leave it with your friends, it lives on within them...

 

i felt amazed, for what is being said is true....

showing lives

Ever thought of being some other people?
Thought of how nice your life can be if you were someone?

I believe,
That everyday,
We are destined to do something with our lives…
That everyday,
We are being showed something…

We wake up everyday,
With an objective,
With a purpose,
And this drives us to do the goal we set for ourselves…

In the process,
We are being showed things that only we can understand,
By living what we are living,
And also;
Y being in the place we are now…

The Irony Of Life

It is a men’s ability to remember,
That sets us apart…

We are the only species,
Concern with the past…

Our memory gives us voice,
And as bare witness of the history;

So that others might learn,
So that they can celebrate our triumphs;
And be warned of our failures…


There are many ways to define our fragile existence,
Many ways to give it meaning;
But it is our memory that shapes it purpose,
And give it context.

The private assortment of images, fears, loves, regrets…
Or is it the cruel irony of life,
That we are destined to hold:-
The dark with the light,
The good with the evil,
Success with disappointment.

This is what separates us,
What makes us human…

And in the end,
We must fight to hold on to…

so close...

sometimes,
we felt as if we were so close,
so colse, to getting something...
so close, in achieving something we want...
something what we wanted so badly...

i said so close la...
so it means in the end...
u din get what you wanted...
and we were often dissapointed by it...

and you felt as if all the ardwork you put in is all wasted...
but is that true?
looking at the bright side of it,
you might be actually earning some expeience...

like..
you will have some experience on a certain thing that you have been through...
and might not be the same in the sence of handling a certain situation...
and your thoughts...

maybe you found that there are no happily ever after...
or you will work harder to achieve your happily ever after...
and also...
things might not go your way all the time...

when problem arises...
sit down calmly and think...
to look for the best solution...
think before you act...

爱的理由

前几天,
和我一些朋友谈起一个话题...
那就是:

爱一个人,要有理由吗?

人人都说,
爱一个人,
不需要理由...

这听起来很浪漫没错...
但,
要是你不知道你为何喜欢一个人,
你认为你们的感情能够长久吗?

应该不会吧...

人,就是为了理由而活...

我们做的每一件事都有各自的理由...
就如倒水...
为什么我们要倒水喝?
就应为我们口渴...
这就是理由....

所以,
当喜欢上一个人时,
要问:"我为什么喜欢她?"

你快乐吗？

我天天都想要快乐...
可是,有可能吗?

要快乐,
要悲哀,
都是我们自己选者的...

有些人说,
要快乐,很容易...
但有些却说,
要快乐,非常难...


到底是容易,还是难?


我认为,
想要快乐,想要悲哀,
是我们自己选的...


可是,往往我们都有做选择的难度...
要选择争取,
或选择放弃...


要随机应变?
或要坚持到底?


讲到最后,
快乐就好...

所以,我认为...
我们作些决定时,
除了要考虑种种因素之外,
也要考虑到自己会快乐吗...
而且,快乐一定要排第一...

所以,
有时,要快乐,
要去争取一些东西...
有时,为了快乐,
一定要放下一些东西...

所谓的,
拿得起,放得下...
我知道,说很容易,但要做很难...
可是,这就是真相!!!

所以,
一定要记得...
佐格选者时,
除了问:"我做得对吗?"
也要问"我会快乐吗?"

time

哭有时,笑有时;
欢乐有时,悲伤有时.

in english,
the phrase actually means:

there is time to cry,
and time to laugh;
there is time to be happy,
and also time to be grieve.

in life,
obstacles are a must.
everyoone have to go through somethings,
in order to learn more...

we might encounter things that we have totaly no experience at all,
and we somehow have to face it nomatter what...
to what degree of seriousness?
and to what level of severeness?
we still have to stand strong and go on...

like the saying above,
there are times of sorrow,
we can be sad...
but let it only be a moment,
then stand strong and slove the proplem,
as depression can sometimes makes things worse...

so, remember:
哭有时,笑有时;
欢乐有时,悲伤有时.

destiny?

some people said that events in our life is writen...
planned before hand,
what happened to us,
what will we be,
or even when will we die?
it is planned...

i beg to differ...

i have long lost this belief...

i only trust that what happened,
and what is going to happen,
to us,
and to the people around us,
is planned by we ourselves...

we are the only one's who are powerful to make what we want ours...
only we can control our destiny,
and only we, can hold on to what we want...

while those who have more power,
are those who are able to influence others around them,
thus making thy, the writer of poeple's destiny...

as long as we are still sane,
as long as we can still think,
rasionalize, manipulate,
we still can change whatever destiny has writen for us...
we still can choose....

why poeple suiside?
be cause they choose to...

why are there homicide?
becasue they choose to kill...

i believe we,
untill today,
no, as long as we are alive,
we are still able to choose...

we can choose not to kill,
not to suicied,
not to harm people,
we can choose to help people,
to turn into a new leaf,
to continue living!

we all have ways to survive in this environment,
it depends on how we choose to live it...

i believe that the only thing we can't change;
the only destiny is:
our family....

we can choose what we want to do in our life,
but we cannot choose who brought us into this world...
family s the only thing we cannot change...

besids that,
nothing is writen...

the book,
is nothing but empty pages,
it however,
is waiting for us to fill it up.
and whatever we do,
is recorded in it.

religion,
is a guide...
i believe every religion is to point us to the right way (except for those mojo religion)
i am not siding any religion,
but i just wanna point out that,
whatever we do,
we must be able to evaluate it ourselves...

and maybe, that is why till today,
i choose not to have a religion...
because, i believe in my judgement,
and most important, i know what is right and wrong...
i believe in myself...



P.S. if i cause any misunderstand, i beg for your forgiveness. religion is a sensitive issue, and i am just sounding my thought.

doing it best or doing it right?

right or wrong?
we often ask ourself.

there is no definate answer,
it is up to you yourself to decipher,
weather what you doing is right or wrong.
what seems right to me,
might be wrong to you.
and vice versa.

the most important thing is wether or not
YOU DID YOUR BEST?

i have already accepted the fact that we cannot satisfy everyone around us,
and that remains a fact.
we have been putting in countless efforts to satisfy poeple around us,
and to much of my dismay,
most efforts are wasted.

taking serious steps to ensure that MOST PEOPLE satisfy what you are doing,
you have to put many things into consideration while makeing a decision.
like what will people think of?
how will it affect others?

you have to know what people are thinking before making a decision...
to satisfy the needs of poeple...

it is also important to know that,
everyone has a mask on.
no one show's their trueself,
maybe some.
but not all...

putting a mask on is also considered an art,
an art that must be mastered...
no one can show their trueself in this world,
because you might never know who is honest and who is not...
like you never know whe will you best friend betray you...
or how your girlfriend seeing another guy behind your back...
mayb until a certain period of time, you may put down your mask...
maybe...

there is no such thing as harmony,
we can never get harmony,
nor do we get ourselve trust.

no one is wothout flaws,
and the most we can do,
is to accept other's flaws,
just like how people accept our flaws.
and we can live happily.

patience is a virtue.
it is usualy said by people,
but how true is it?
i said it is very true.
without patience,
i will not be sane anymore,
nor will i be here blogging.
patience plays an important part in anger management as well...

well after all these,
all i wat to say is,
be patient, understande poeple's behaviour, and do the best thing, not the right thing.

respect?

that is what happened when i tell my sis to show some respect.
her reaction is "resoect?"

well,
guess i am a very lousy brother then?

i have been trying to avoid fights with her ever since the day she came to this world...
so, i just let her do things her way...
never have i any opinion on the things she did,
i did not giv any comment unless really needed,
in other words, i will always let her...
some people will say, i dont care...

so what?
i not only did not get the respect,
(trust me, not a single bit of respect)
i also get to hear her shout at me...

see?
maybe i should have do something different?
maybe tell her off when she is wrong at times?

well, all those are gone now,
i can't turn back time,
so, i'll just let it be,
i'll live my days,
and she will live her's...

is it the end?
maybe yes...
maybe no...
we'll see...